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4.30.2014

Hello from Japan!


Hi guys! Just thought I'd check in to say hello! From Japan! As I type away at this, I am sitting in our teeny, tiny hotel room (seriously the tiniest room you've ever seen) in the comfy pajamas the hotel provides for our convenience (why don't all hotels do this?) and am about to go to sleep on Wednesday night (while Wednesday is just beginning in CA!). We are now at the beginning of our second week here in Japan and have made it back to Tokyo! We flew into Tokyo when we got here, but then took the bullet train out of the city and spent the entire first week exploring different areas.

So far, this trip has been awesome! We have already done so very much and it feels like I have been away for more like a month rather than a week. Now we are starting to explore Tokyo, which has been very interesting and different than all of the other places we have been to (to say the least, really). It has also been raining pretty much non-stop since we got here, so I have been walking around in dirty, soaked Toms (I'm so sorry, my beloved shoes), crazy, frizzy hair, and a clear umbrella I got for 300 yen. I'm hoping the rain will stop tomorrow, but nonetheless I am happy just to be here and a little (or a lot) of rain won't stop these adventurers!

Well, I'm off to bed now to get some rest for another full day of exploring! Hope all is well with you lovelies and that you have been enjoying the guest post series so far (which will be continuing tomorrow!). What do you think of all the posts?

Good night! Or good morning or good afternoon or whatever it is where you happen to be.


4.29.2014

Guest Post // How to Explore a Little City

Welcome, friends! While I am off in Japan, I have collected a lovely team of bloggers to share a variety of guest posts about travel, fashion, and everything in between! I will be back from my adventuring soon, but in the mean time please enjoy these wonderful ladies :)

I am happy to introduce you to Abby of Little City Adventures today! This mama-to-be has become one of the sweetest friends I have, even though we live on the opposite coasts :)
How To Explore a Little City
By the title that I chose for my blog you may have guessed that not only do I live in a little city but I love living in a little city. My little city is Lancaster, Pennsylvania, a city that you probably have never heard of but we are pretty historical and over the last few years we have become a pretty nifty city as well. Growing up my family really never came into the city, Im racking my brain and I cant remember a specific instance at all, I think because when my parents were growing up Lancaster was an all around rough city. But as I said earlier, it has cleaned up a lot and there are so many awesome things to see. I know you have one burning question, How did you, someone who never went into the city growing up, become familiar with Lancaster city AND learn to love what it has to offer?!When I was in high school one of my friends suggested going downtown to visit the vintage shops on Queen Street. Immediately, I felt a pull to visit the city more often. When Seth and I started dating we would spend hours on Sunday afternoons/evenings just wandering around the city holding hands and just chatting. I mean hours people. Those are some of my fondest memories of our dating times. Soon after we started dating I got a job working at a cafe right downtown and I really got to know the city. Ive loved the hours that Ive spent exploring my little city, the history and cultures represented are so interesting. Do you live near a little city that youve never explored or are you taking a day trip? Have no fear, I will give you a few tips on exploring a little city.
1. Take a gander at a map of the city
Many cities, large and small, have maps like this one scattered throughout the sidewalks. Dont be embarrassed to read the map, they are there for a reason. When I was learning my way around the city, I seriously relied on those maps. Be sure to take note of the layout of the city as well as the main streets in and out of the city. Many older cities, like Lancaster, are laid out in an easy to follow grid system with alternating one way streets. Those one way streets can be tricky to catch on to at first but most places have them in an alternating pattern. Also make sure that you know the main streets in and out of the city just in case you do get lost while walking or driving. In Lancaster the most well known in and outstreets are Chestnut and Walnut, In Walnut, Out Chestnut.
2. Read those signs
Whatever city you are visiting probably spent a gross amount of money on signage. So use them. The signs pointing you towards the sites and stops are especially helpful when driving. When I first started driving in the city I literally knew like two ways out of the city and the one way I could only find by following the sign pointing out a landmarkthat was in that direction. Dont be ashamed to read those signs, Im not!

In third grade my class went on a walking tour of Historical Lancaster City and I remember having to read a lot of the historical signs. I also remember that my teacher was really tall and she had long legs and would walk so quickly and our little third grade size legs could not keep up (ha). You can learn a lot about your little city by reading those signs. For example, in the photo above you can learn that not only was Lancaster City was founded in 1729 but for awhile it was the state capitol.
3. Follow the crowds and ask questions
I used to be so afraid to ask people questions about where to go in the city, I guess it seemed uncoolto ask questions, I thought I should just know without ever having been to those places.  Thats just silly. Store owners and employees really dont mind answering questions and recommending shops and restaurants. When I worked at the cafe downtown, tourists asked questions all of the time, whether it was just directions to the Amish or what store could they find a specific item in, and I never really minded answering those quick questions. Alternatively, when driving around take note of which blocks seem to be the most crowded, it probably means that those blocks have the best shops and eats.
4. Simply enjoy the sites and the mix of old and new
If you rush around, you are going to miss things. One of my favorite things about my little city is the wonderful mix of old and new. We have churches and homes that were built in the 1700s and right beside them are modernstructures. Each city has a unique feel and look so take some time and just enjoy what is going on around you. Go in and out of shops, especially the locally-owned ones that youve probably never heard of, and take your time learning what your little city is all about.

Bonus Tips
-  Research parking before going. The other day I was trying to get to Central Market to do my grocery shopping but tourists (I confirmed that they were indeed tourists by their license plates) had literally blocked an entire city block waiting to get into a full parking lot when they could have just just gone around the block and found two other parking locations. Also, many of the heavy residential streets have free parking, you may have to walk a bit farther, but it could be worth it.

-  Worried about running into the bad parts of the city? Do some research. One way to altogether avoid accidentally walking into thosewellscarier parts of the city do some research. Look up homes for sale in the city and you can sort of judge by the photos (most of the time) what those streets look like. Or utilize street view on Google Maps.

Abby
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4.28.2014

Guest Post // 5 Places to See in Japan

Welcome, friends! While I am off in Japan, I have collected a lovely team of bloggers to share a variety of guest posts about travel, fashion, and everything in between! I will be back from my adventuring soon, but in the mean time please enjoy these wonderful ladies :)

Laura is another lovely blogger that lives in Japan with her husband! She is a very sweet and creative gal that I have loved getting to know through her blog. I love this post she came up with!
Hello! I'm Laura and I blog over at Inspiration.Sparks, where I share all about the wonderful expat life in the little island of Okinawa, Japan. A little over a year ago, my husband who's a Marine got orders here and ever since the day we flew in, we have fallen in love with this place. Over at Inspiration.Sparks you'll find tons of adventure posts, bits of life with my lovely husband, as well as some inspiration here and there, you know, to spice things up. Since Jess will be adventuring it up in Japan, i thought it would be appropriate to share a little bit about my first vacation trip abroad!


We moved to Okinawa, Japan in 2012 and although it was technically my first experience traveling abroad, it's a little different because we live here. Okinawa is where we call home, not where we vacation. Last December we flew to mainland Japan and we explored Tokyo, Kyoto and Osaka; I consider this my first vacation trip abroad. Although i want to travel through Asia, i have to confess that its a little intimidating, so mainland Japan seemed like the perfect place to start.

We visited so many fun places during our trip, here are my top 5:
5. Ghibli Museum, Mitaka - Husband and I are big Studio Ghibli fans and when we found out there was a museum in Tokyo we knew we had to visit it. We purchased the tickets at one of our friendly neighborhood Lawson convenient stores after a couple of guessed tries at the japanese ticket machine and an extremely nice japanese worker :) It was such a fun, interactive museum even if everything was in japanese, learning how Hayao Miyazaki makes his movies was such a treat. 
4. Umeda Sky Building, Osaka - With it's unique architecture, it's 360 degree observatory of Downtown Osaka, the love lock fence and the authentic German christmas market that welcomed us as we entered the building, it's safe to say this was one of our favorite places!
3. The Golden Pavilion, Kyoto - Our last stop in Kyoto was this Zen Buddhist Temple called named, Kinkaku-ji (金閣寺) which literally means "Temple of the Golden Pavilion". It's designated by UNESCO as one of the "Historic Monuments of Ancient Kyoto". I assure you this picture does not do this temple justice, the top two stories of the pavilion are covered in pure gold leaf and man does it shine, even from across the lake.
2. Sensoji Temple, Tokyo - The first temple we visited was oldest and most popular buddhist temple in Japan. We were greeted by the Kaminarimon ("Thunder Gate"), followed by a huge shopping street, which lead us to this gorgeous temple. It was such a wonderful experience to watch others practice their faith and for us to take it all in.
1. Fushimi Inari Shrine, Kyoto - Dreamy huh?! This was my #1 must see attraction in mainland Japan. This Shinto Shrine was put in place on a mountain top in order to worship Inari, the God of Rice. The orange torii gates are traditional japanese gates, all of which were donated by those who have been successful in business; as a way to show gratitude. The shrine is full of these orange torii gates, from tiny ones you can buy for ¥800, to the medium ones (shown above) and gigantic ones as you climb the mountain. It was surreal to walk under tunnels and tunnels of torii's. 

Q: Have you ever visited Japan? If so, which places are in your top 5? If not, which japanese spots are in your bucket list?

Thanks so much Jess for letting me share a peek into my first adventure abroad! If you'd like to read more about the places we visited in mainland Japan, click here!

Laura
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4.25.2014

Guest Post // Tips for Traveling on a Budget

Welcome, friends! While I am off in Japan, I have collected a lovely team of bloggers to share a variety of guest posts about travel, fashion, and everything in between! I will be back from my adventuring soon, but in the mean time please enjoy these wonderful ladies :)

I am very happy to welcome Ella of Paper Umbrella today! I love all of the DIYs, recipes, style posts, and the little things about life that she blogs about. Her writing and content is just so authentic that I always leave her blog feeling like I actually know her in real life. Hope you enjoy her post!
Last summer I traveled around Europe for a few weeks with my boyfriend, and the process of planning – and the trip itself – was a huge learning experience. I’ve been incredibly lucky to have been given so many opportunities to travel, and I’ve learned a lot through my previous travels – how to hop on a moving river bus in Thailand, how to shower in a bucket in Tanzania, how to say “please” and “thank you” in many languages, the ins and outs of bartering in a language you don’t understand, how to not kill your little brother when sharing a hotel room for weeks on end…but traveling around Europe this summer was the first time I was planning my trip, traveling around, and being a true tourist completely on my own. I learned a lot and picked up a few helpful tips and tricks along the way, so I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to share!

Depending on where you are traveling, what you should know beforehand will be different. If you’re unfamiliar with the culture you are about to go explore, be sure to do a bit of reading first! Learn about what is and isn’t appropriate in terms of dress, interactions, dining, etc. Try to memorize a few basic terms in the language. Knowing these things will make it so much easier to connect with locals, and hopefully help you have a much richer experience!

These tips apply more to an experience similar to the one I had in Europe, but I’ve also tried to include a few general tricks I’ve learned throughout my travels that apply almost anywhere!

PACKING
Invest in (or borrow) a backpacking backpack. It’s way easier than lugging around a suitcase, and if you plan it out carefully, you should probably be able to check it on the plane so you don’t ever have to pay baggage fees.
Taylor usually had the honor of carrying our day bag as well ;)

Use packing cubes. This will save you from an explosion of clothes every time you try to find anything in your backpack. I didn’t want to buy cubes, so I used those plastic bags that sheets and comforters come in and they worked perfectly. Pack all your electronics/chargers in a separate little bag. Remember your plug converter!

Pack layers and neutral basics. Pack mostly neutrals, and a few pops of color that will go well with most of your basic pieces. Make sure all of your tops can go with whatever bottoms you bring. This is a time to read up on what is appropriate for you to wear! Also only bring one fancy outfit. You won’t end up wearing the second one, I promise. If you must, bring a few accessories to change it up.

Leave room for a couple souvenirs. But don’t leave too much room! Limiting your space is a good way to prevent over-shopping ;)

Wanna know a big money-saving secret? Don’t get your money/stuff stolen! Hey, that sounds like a good idea, doesn’t it! Get one of these locks for your bag for when you need to let it out of your sight/sleep on a bus/train/plane. Never carry your wallet in your back pocket, and always wear your purse across your body and in front of you.

Take a money belt. I know, I know, it’s dorky. But there will be times when you need to carry around a lot of money (and probably your passport), and you really don’t want to risk getting that stolen.

Make photocopies of your passport and other important documents, and put them somewhere separate from your actual passport. Just in case!

This wasn’t an issue in Europe, but many other places I’ve travelled don’t have toilet paper in their bathrooms (sometimes you can buy it outside). So bring your own toilet paper! I usually carry around those little packets of tissues.

PLANNING
Plan out your trip. When you’re on a budget, it is really important to plan out your trip beforehand. Leave some room for spur of the moment adventures, but try your best to do the bulk of the planning ahead of time so you don’t have to stress about money or time once you’re there. Things will be much more enjoyable that way!

Check out your travel options and buy as many tickets as you can before hand. Originally I was just going to buy a Eurail pass, but it turned out it was cheaper to just buy individual train, bus, and airplane tickets in my particular situation. There are some things that aren’t included in the original fee for a Eurail pass, so if you’re travelling in Europe, be sure to look into that.

Buy (or borrow from the library) guidebooks and tear out or make copies of the pages you’ll need and important maps! There’s rarely a need to bring the whole thing and you can throw the pages you’ll need for each day into your purse.

Use Airbnb. Doooo it! We found that Airbnbs were actually cheaper than most youth hostels, and were usually in better locations (that is, if you just rent a room, not the whole place). Also, you get to meet super cool people and can ask your hosts for advice on where to eat and what to do. I love getting the inside scoop from the locals (it will also save you a ton of money).
Sweet little details in the apartment we stayed at in Paris.


ADVENTURE TIME!
Don’t eat in touristy restaurants! If they have big plastic menus translated into five different languages and with pictures of each dish in the front, don’t eat there. Avoid the main touristy streets. You will save so much money and the food will be much better. Do a little spy work to see where the locals are going or, better yet, ask some locals!

In general, try not to be a tourist and find free entertainment. Find out what your Airbnb hosts like to do for fun! We often chose one (or two) expensive touristy thing that we felt we really couldn’t miss, and then spent the rest of our time exploring the city and trying out free/cheap sights. Don’t go see something just because you feel like you should (we didn’t go to the Louvre in Paris because we just really weren’t that into the art there – WHAT?!?!).
All the best views are usually free!

Have all the picnics. This was one of my favorite things about our trip. I loved the days when we would go to a little deli, grab sandwich makings and a bottle of beer, and find a little park to eat in. We made sandwiches for lunch most days, and had cereal at our Airbnb for breakfast. Since we were in Airbnbs we were also able to make our own dinner some nights - this way we could splurge a little when we went out!
A picnic in Rome.

Use a budgeting app. We really had to stick to a budget throughout our trip, so we tried to enter the money we spent into an app to keep track of everything. We used­­­­ Quick Budget and it was really helpful.

If you’re traveling somewhere where tap water is safe to drink, make sure you bring a reusable water bottle. Buying bottled water constantly can really add up.

Take notes! If you ever go back, you will want them…or maybe someone else will want them! My dad obsessively takes notes and keeps business cards/brochures/maps when he travels and those often came in handy for us.

Have so much fun!!! (oh, and maybe try to squeeze me into your suitcase if you can?)
If you’re planning on traveling around Europe (or if you’re just interested) and want to see what we did on our trip you can see the posts I wrote about it (and the little movies we made) by clicking these links!:


4.24.2014

Guest Post // Let's Pack!

Welcome, friends! While I am off in Japan, I have collected a lovely team of bloggers to share a variety of guest posts about travel, fashion, and everything in between! I will be back from my adventuring soon, but in the mean time please enjoy these wonderful ladies :)

Today I have a guest post from Katie of Lublyou. She is one of my very first blogging friends & always puts a smile on my face. After reading her posts about a Russian girl's life in Idaho and the adventuring she is up to, I can't help but leave her blog feeling happier than when I arrived! I hope you love her as much as I do!


Hi, this is Katie from Lublyou (formerly Chestnut Mocha)!
Summer is getting closer and so are vacations and road trips! Here's my formula of an ideal wardrobe for a week-long city vacation. I usually I try to find things that I can combine into a few possible outfits.

1. Bottoms x 3: shorts, skirt, jeans.
2. Tops x 4: long-sleeve shirt, t-shirt, tank top x 2.3. Colder weather tops x 2: jacket, sweater.4. Shoes x 3: heels, flats, sandals/flip flops.
5. Dresses x 2: casual, evening.
6. Bags x 2: small and large (doubles as a carry-on!) All of these pieces can be easily mixed up into different outfits:Pack smart and travel light! I hope you find my tips useful. :-)

Katie
4.23.2014

Guest Post // 5 Things Americans Should Know About Visiting Japan

Welcome, friends! While I am off in Japan, I have collected a lovely team of bloggers to share a variety of guest posts about travel, fashion, and everything in between! I will be back from my adventuring soon, but in the mean time please enjoy these wonderful ladies :)

I am so happy and honored to welcome Melyssa of The Nectar Collective to my blog today! Ever since I found her blog last year, it has been a constant source of inspiration, encouragement, & advice. Melyssa is such a genuine and creative person, which is what I love that about her! I thought she would be the perfect person to kick things off today, as she was living in Japan when I started reading her blog & has unique insights as an American that has been immersed in Japanese culture. Enjoy!

Hello Foreign Room readers! I'm Melyssa and I regularly hold down the fort at The Nectar Collective, where I blog about everything from self-improvement and creativity to corgis and adventures. I also lived in Japan for a couple years, so I'm excited to fill in for Jessica while she's off invading my old stomping grounds!

Today, I'm excited to share some tips that might come in handy for anyone who is thinking of traveling to Japan. Something that I learned after living abroad is that each country you visit will have a completely different culture and mentality than the one you came from. If you're coming from the US, Japan is about as opposite as you can get! Considering these tips before hopping on a plane will ensure that you understand Japanese culture enough to respect it and will give you an idea of what to expect when you arrive. I hope they're helpful! Now, let's get started.
1. Most people don't speak English. This has shocked many of my friends who visited Japan. Not only do people not really know English, but they are also too shy and embarrassed to speak it to strangers, as a function of Japan's humble and reserved society. Big cities generally have English signs, but if you're going somewhere besides Tokyo, you might want to print maps ahead of time and plan to speak in gestures. Or better yet, learn some Japanese before you go. They will LOVE you for it!

2. It's disrespectful to be loud on trains. The extensive train system in Japan is one of its best qualities -- getting around is a cinch! But that means that many of the people on trains are commuting after an extremely long day of work and use that time to relax and even sleep. In general, being loud in Japan is uncommon, and being loud on trains is something you only really see from foreign tourists. Be respectful of Japan's cultural values and speak quietly if you have to.

3. Learn how to say "thank you" in Japanese. You might feel like an idiot when using it, but it means a whole lot to Japanese people if you can thank them in their own language. This video does an awesome job of explaining how to say it and when you would use the different forms.
4. Embrace cultural differences. In an average day, a Japanese person might use a squat toilet, take a cigarette break at work, and eat octopus for dinner. These might be a little odd in your home country, but for the Japanese, they're second nature. You don't have to enjoy all of the cultural differences, but try to embrace them as another way of living instead of mocking or detesting them.

5. Be polite and sincere. Japan is a small country, yet many of its people choose not to travel internationally. This means that lots of Japanese people only gain interaction with other nationalities when they see tourists in Japan. This can prove to be a good and a bad thing, because if foreign tourists are being disrespectful, loud, and rude, then it gives Japanese people a bad impression about other countries. Likewise, if you're kind, polite, and sincere, it gives them a great impression about the rest of the world. You are an ambassador of your home country, so wear it well and always be genuinely nice to the people you meet (no matter where you are in the world!). :)

With all that said, these tips aren't meant to make you be someone you're not. It's important for Japanese people to meet foreign tourists, so that they can learn about other personalities and ways of living, but it's also important for us to respect the native culture we're embarking into. As long as you respect Japan when visiting, everyone will have a great time! If you have any questions, feel free to get in touch with me on my blog, The Nectar Collective. Sayonara! :)

Melyssa
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4.22.2014

Good to Go // I'm off to Japan!

Well guys, this is it, the day I have been waiting for three months to arrive: I'm finally off to Japan! In fact, as you read this, I will be (hopefully) fast asleep on an airplane, attempting to outsmart jet-lag. Though I have eagerly awaited this trip for months, I have hoped to one day make this trip with my best friend by my side for a few years, and have dreamed of seeing this vast world my entire life. This day has truly been 20 years in the making! I am elated to say the very least, and even a little bit nervous in the best way possible. I just can't believe this is happening!

So, now that I will be galavanting through Japan for the next couple weeks, what does that mean for this space? Well, things will actually be continuing on here without me! I have worked with a long list of fabulous ladies throughout the Blogosphere to organize a killer line-up of guest posts while I am gone. These gals will be talking about their travel tips & experiences, their hometowns, style, and life in general. You didn't think I would just leave y'all hanging while I am gone, did you?! I am so excited for you all to get to read their posts and grow to love them as much as I do!

Come back tomorrow to kick things off with Melyssa of The Nectar Collective!

Many hugs and kisses to you all! Now, I'm off to adventure.


4.21.2014

Outfit // Basking in the Golden Light


Hi friends! Happy Monday! I think it is safe to say that I've never been so happy for a Monday in my entire life. This evening after school and work, Dai and I are taking off for Japan! Crazy, I know! We first fly to LA and then our flight to Japan doesn't technically leave until 12:30am tomorrow, but the traveling begins tonight. We are very excited, but have been very busy people to get to this point. There was a lot of cleaning, packing, organizing, and studying that happened this weekend, which was kind of sad since it was Easter and all. I usually love picking out a nice dress to wear and making it to church. With all that was happening in preparation for Japan (& my dad getting ready to put our house on the market), it just wasn't in the cards. Next year!
Thankfully, I was able to fit in just a little bit of "me time" to finally get my hair cut (not pictured here!) and get a nice mani-pedi for vacation. I got my first gel shellac manicure and let me tell you, I am a believer. It. Is. Wonderful.
Needless to say, these purple skinnies were the closest thing I had to an "Easter outfit" this year. I got these about a month ago and they have been a pretty nice addition to my wardrobe this spring. I don't usually wear colored bottoms, so these are kind of fun! I also just recently got this embroidered top and am in love with it. I am just a sucker for a beautiful embroidery pattern. Also, I haven't broken out this vintage Dooney & Bourke bag in a while, but it will always be one of my favorite bargains. Snagged it at an antique fair for only $10!
I hate to admit it, but this outfit was the first (and only) time I wore "real" clothes or put on any makeup all week. The rest of the week was the standard tired college student uniform: yoga pants and t-shirt. That's where I'm at right now haha.

Every time I wear this hat, I love it more and more. It kind of makes me sad that it hung displayed on my wall for so long with the intention of being worn on adventures, but never taking it down from its perch. It's about time this hat gets some love! I used to think I could only wear it in the fall for some reason, but I believe I must rethink that philosophy now. As I was heading out the door to shoot these photos, I grabbed it on a whim and am now glad that I did! Its an easy way to add a little flair to an outfit and I think it worked out well with this one.
By the way, this is my new favorite spot for photos! It is so private and lovely, and is only a few blocks down the street from my house! I was a very happy girl basking in the golden light, and even happier when my pup got to run free with me.

I know it has been a while since my last outfit post, but I am looking forward to getting back into the swing of things with those and to hopefully come back from Japan with a nice little collection of them to share :)

Though my traveling begins tonight, don't worry, this isn't the last you will be hearing from me before my blogging break! Be sure to come back tomorrow to say farewell :)

Pants // Uniqlo
Shirt // Marshalls
Sandals // Old Navy
Hat // Lucky Brand
Bag // Vintage